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Respect ... something that can't be enforced.
You can never 'force' people to respect you although you know that your actions are not acceptable. Respect is a feeling that comes from within the heart and words, both.
So don't struggle for gaining respect, change your character for it. Make yourself helpful towards your surroundings. Don't expect any return on a favour you do for others. Look around for people who need you. And put on your best efforts in giving assistance.
Never think you did something great. It's your job to become useful not only for yourself but also for your social environment. So, don't be proud of what you do, always stay humble and modest.
Only then, you will be respected and you will earn honour and nobility.